Parent to Parent: Sex talk

The birds and the bees: it's a conversation most parents dread, but avoiding the topic of sex could be sending the wrong message

Dr. Eugene Beresin, Mass. General Hospital
"It means to many kids. I don't care just do what you want."

Mom and Dad should approach the difficult discussion by asking the kids what they think, and then talk about their own values without coming across too judgmental.

Dr. Eugene Beresin, Mass. General Hospital
"If parents are too dogmatic, too rigid, too strict in their rules and not willing to talk about their differences with kids, then things like sex or drugs can be the forbidden fruit."

As for getting started with the sex talk, try not to be too formal. Instead, look for a good opportunity.

Dr. Eugene Beresin, Mass. General Hospital
"If there's a TV commercial or something in a movie or something on TV that's very sexual grab that moment. Grab that moment, and say, 'What do you think about that?' Then, engage in a conversation."

And this may surprise some parents, but many doctors say it's best to start the sex talks as early as five-years-old with a kid friendly conversation.

Dr. Eugene Beresin, Mass. General Hospital
"Beginning with a loving relationship and closeness and Mommy and Daddy coming together and making a baby is phase one, and as the child gets older, they can provide more and more details about sex."

Each parent must decide how much detail they feel comfortable with, but experts agree the best place to start is to just start talking to your kids.

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